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Wherever on the sexuality spectrum you find yourself, using a hookup app for the first time can be a daunting experience.
They have something of a bad reputation and many of us bear the scars, but don’t let that put you off – every experience is different and forewarned is forearmed. Seeing what’s out there before narrowing your criteria helps you better understand what you’re looking for – except the obvious – and get a feel for the general energy of the guys near you.
If you’d feel safer at home, though, do that and practice saying, “I really must get on, thanks for a lovely time” and holding the door open. Stash away any valuables like laptops or whatever – it’s unlikely anyone coming over for a shag will be after your tech, but your orgasm is bound to be much improved if you’re not worrying he’s slipped your i Pad into his backpack. Many apps have a video call option so you can chat before you meet. There’s been some controversy around this function: some feel it’s given narrow-minded guys an opportunity to screen for so-called “undesirable” qualities. Alternatively, if the need to get your rocks off isn’t too strong, meet somewhere neutral first. So, when looking at his pics, imagine him under worse lighting, with a bit more timber or less defined or skinnier – oh, and a bit older and, in most cases, shorter. High and horny Most men will tell you if they’re into drugs or chems in their profile but if they don’t and you want to avoid it, ask.
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OK, so you’ve downloaded Grindr – other gay dating apps are available – you’re staring at a sea of mugshots, now what? One thing to look out for is guys with the diamond emoji in their bio or similar ones such as dollar signs or bags of coins – you may have to pay to spend time with them.
Hey mister Before messaging anyone, have a look around, even at guys you’re not interested in. “Looking for a room” also suggest this will not be a free bunk-up. Men on apps can be blunt and, at times, unpleasant.