Dating is going
It’s about sitting in front of the TV or playing video games.
I’ll be home, unshowered, dealing with the endless cycle of kids.
There were several side-effects to this, aside from a busier schedule, that make me now believe this is the best way to approach online dating: 1.
Better Definition As I went on more and more dates in a short time period, I realized that what I really wanted in a woman and what I had been willing to accept were very different.
The confusion of first-dates was disappearing altogether. I hadn’t even thought that having fun could be a part of online dating but as I grew more comfortable, I had more fun.
I still wasn’t the most confident guy (for example, I still wasn’t randomly asking girls out in public) but I was becoming very comfortable on dates, which gave the appearance of confidence. Less Stress With dating multiple women, there was always another first date on the horizon. I lost my hell-bent desire to make every date go perfectly.
With this approach, I went on one first-date every month, sometimes less.
All of these dates were very stressful because of the time being I devoted just to get to the date.
Dating in numbers allowed me to make decisions based on what I desired, not based on how lonely I was at that time.Honestly, it was often a relief because there were more first dates waiting and I would be able to remove someone from my list of potentials.This freedom allowed me to finally be honest with myself about what I was looking for.All this changed when my dating schedule became very active.Breaking off communication with someone I had nothing in common with, or at least who was missing qualities I was looking for, became easy.