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I don’t see moving to phone calls as a bad thing, but I found meeting in person was much more valuable and more revealing so I aimed to get to the meeting part as quickly as I could.I found that detecting chemistry over the phone wasn’t something I was good at.

Going from emails right to first dates was where I found the most success.However, if you prefer to move to the phone before meeting or if you’re talking to someone who prefers that, I would recommend the following.When I offer advice on the first date, I recommend lots of planning (see my post on first date conversations that I mentioned above).I also had a few situations where talking on the phone seemed to encourage us to put off meeting and when we finally met, I was disappointed that the chemistry was lacking.So my first piece of advice is don’t feel like you must move from emails to phone calls.