Lonely person for dating
Sometimes we set unreasonable goals from people and then get disappointed when they fail to live up to them – sadly people don’t always act kindly when they should, but then neither do we all of the time!
Are your expectations reasonable or too idealistic?
Many people struggle with this, men, women, young, old, married, unmarried, those who believe in a God and those who don’t.
It would be great to chat with you about things that will help you to feel less lonely and more accepted, needed, wanted and cared for.
The more you get to know Jesus the more you will know and understand how much he cares about you and what is happening in your life – Find out about Jesus.
When we meet people it can sometimes be daunting and worrying if we don’t know what to say to build a friendship.
Some people can spend time with a group of people and feel lonely, others might hardly ever see anyone and feel lonely.
The advantage of meeting people at clubs or groups where they are there because they enjoy a certain activity, is that you automatically have something in common with them – you don’t have to struggle to know what to say, you can ask about their views on the thing the club is about.We are not always going to find friends in every situation we find ourselves in, sometimes it’s going to just be a case of keeping busy with what we are doing, taking a book to read, and then going home afterwards.This is not failure – the more we can take away the pressure from ourselves of having to try and find someone who likes us in every situation – the more we can begin to realise that being loved by Jesus, and thought important and significant by him is enough for us in some situations to free us to feel okay about time spent alone.You might think this is stupid but lonliness from not ever being intimate with a girl is the hardest emotional thing that I've ever had to deal with.I feel lonely, hurt, alienated, and frustrated sexually.