Midlife lesbian dating
I wasn't clean, so I wasn't really clear on what I was doing or what I wanted.
Now I've had a number of years of being present and clear, and that has changed everything in my life.
I experimented with women a lot during that time, but that was when I was in my drug phase, so I don't really count it.I went on my first date with a woman in the '90s, after I got divorced from my husband.I was in my 30s then and knew that I was interested in women, but I was a little uncomfortable with it—I just couldn't manage it.I was talking to my best friend Tracey Cunningham, the great hair colorist, and there were a couple of pretty girls working in her salon.I was looking at one of them, and I said, "I want to go on a date with her! I went to a Super Bowl party hosted by Wallis Annenberg, right down the street from where I live in L.